Smiling ( smiles ) is more than just an expression of love and happiness . Each person must have smiled when own or are in the social sphere , but not the only signal that they are happy , far from it . We smiled for specific social purposes , since it can send all sorts of ' signal ' that can be useful to others.
Here are 9 benefits of a smile that we can use to send messages about trust ( trustworthiness ) , friendliness
( attractivity ) and many more. Let us listen completely ;
1 . Make others to believe you
In an environment where all people could easily lie , who should we believe ? One of the ' signal ' that shows us to trust other people is a smile. Sincere smile can send a message that others can trust and work with us . People who smile are rated higher generosity, and when people share with each other they tend to show a sincere smile ( Mehual . , 2007).
Economists even think that the smiles have value . In a study by Scharlemannetal (2001 ) , research subjects tend to trust others if they smile. The study found that smiling effect on the level of trust to others around 10%.
2. . Defense of social slip- ups
Social defense of slip- ups , the term kerennya " Ngeles " embarrassment. Yes , a smile can be useful when you are ngeles and shame . Try to remember , remember when you forget an appointment with your girlfriend ? What do you do when accidentally kicking a small child ? Or when you've stumbled on a banana skin in front of many people ? not smile ?
Embarrassment and smiles work as an alternative to get out of a social circle that presses ( Keltner & Buswell , 1997). Smile because shame is sometimes accompanied Chuckling beneficial disillusion ourselves to see an error. Not just that, smile is also beneficial to be forgiven for the mistake we did .
3. Smiling for fear feel bad
Sometimes we smile because it's considered a courtesy , so we can avoid bad feelings of others towards us . In a study ( LaFrance , 1997) , people were asked to remain silent silent when others get to hear the good news , they did not feel well , if not to smile and feel that others will think badly about themselves if they do not smile . So , smile for the good of others is no sin not ! ? Because if you do not smile then you will be deemed unfeeling , hehe ..
4 . Smiling while suffering
Smiling is one way to reduce the suffering caused by an irritating situation . Psychologists call it facial feedback hypothesis . Forcing a smile when we feel pressured enough to lift our mood , even a little .
But it must be remembered , smiling frustrating situations may be useful for your internal state , but this is not visible to others . Research Ansfield ( 2007 ) show that research subjects look sad video , feel better when they smile than those who do not . But , those who are smiling at the pathetic picture judged poorly by others .
5 . Smiling for sexual charm
Smile girl has a magical effect on men , are more than just eye contact . A study showing how men approach women at a bar ( Walsh & Hewitt , 1985 ) . When a woman only to establish eye contact with a man , he approached the success of only 20 % of the time required . However, when the same woman adds a smile, a man approached faster 60 % of the time .
Smiling increase female attraction to men , but not vice versa . When man smiling at a woman , less magical effect . Because there are some men look for women 's cooler when idle or even shame , than when they were seen smiling and happy ( Tracy & Beall , 2011 ) . Reduced smile makes a man look more masculine .
6 . Hiding something you think
Sincere smile never lies. While the fake smile involves the mouth , whereas a sincere smile ' spread ' to the eye. Nevertheless, smile can be used to hide what we think , but not easy to make a fake smile . Your smile can be trusted to have earned the smile spread across your face and make your eyes twinkle little . Confidential ? for this one you have to practice .
7 . Smile to make money
We have already seen that economists have calculated the value of a smile , but the smile makes us get the money ? Tidd and Lockard ( 1978 ) find servers ( waiters ) are given tips to smile a lot more than it does. In general , the service industry , such as flight attendants or employees expressly entertainment and hospitality paid for smiling to the customer. But , be careful , Psychologist cites incompatibility between genuine smile and not , can cause physical fatigue while working . So , smile is monetized , but also can cause a " miserable " .
8 . Smile and ( half ) the world smiles with you
One of happiness in social life is when you smile at someone and they smile back . Although , not everyone is smiling back . Research Hinsz and Tomhave ( 1991), see how the proportion of people will respond to a smile . The result showed that around 50 % of people responded . In contrast, almost no people respond to a smile with a frown .
Now there is a sense reasons to smile. So smiled before the prohibited smile !
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